Conor O’Cuinn takes us on a 65 minute roller-coaster of one queer man’s journey in this modern world of dating.
Following successful runs at both Edinburgh Fringe and The Kings Head Theatre, Conor is bringing his raw, thought provoking piece back to share the trials of finding connection. Long gone are the days of men meeting in dark corners of discotheques, it’s all online now: swiping left and right, profile prompts, catfishes, and it’s so superficial, nothing holds meaning, with a ding of a message and ‘Looking for fun?’ starting many a late night rendezvous.
Conor plays a character who fits into the ‘Twink’ category of the queer descriptors, he revels in anonymous sexual encounters, sometimes partaking in sex work, sometimes not. They are living their best ‘free love’ life, or are they? Conor looks deeper into the psyche of the pieces and questions where the motivations for this lifestyle comes from, the suggestion being that loneliness is the instigator for the creation of a fictional boyfriend to shield their more sordid antics from those around them.
The set design of the piece is simple, housed in the black box studio of Theatre 503, the walls are adorned with plastic sheeting, giving an almost ethereal feel to the overall piece but at times feeling clinical and cold. Lighting and video design are used incredibly effectively throughout, with video of Conor often projected on the back wall showing him taking selfies, or his interactions with partners. It is impactful and gives the audience moments of reflection as things play out in front of us. One particular section stands out as exceptional use of darkness, leaving the audience in blackout just long enough for it to become uncomfortable which given the description of an assault we have just witnessed holds an incredible emotional power.
The direction from Tazy Harrison-Moore is very well thought out, in particular there are movement sections that wonderfully help to portray the feelings being played out. There are wonderful moments of comedy throughout also, Conor shows a skill for comedic timing and writing here.
This is an important piece that leaves you thinking about the dating culture that has been created in society, particularly in the queer community. It is a brutally honest look at modern dating. Conor has brought forth a fantastic piece of writing which I am sure will have a very successful life ahead of it.
This show was reviewed on the 24th January 2025 at Theatre 503, London.
Review written by Rosie Browne
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